Episode 49: Interview with a Foster Sibling

This episode features our precious eldest child, Lily, who is almost 12, and has been a foster sibling since she was 7!

Some of her favorite things to do are: playing Gaga Ball (What is Gaga Ball??), hanging out with her cousins, and running with her dad. Basically, she is an angel sent from heaven, especially since Jihae hates to run.

In this episode, we also talked about:

Electives. We completely forgot that word, and it never came to us during the episode. But it’s ‘electives’ (Lily called them blocks), and the ones that kids have to choose from are so much cooler than when we were in Jr. High School.

Going to the library!

Especially during Spring Break! If you live in our area (Chandler, AZ), you should check out the Spring Break reading challenge they are doing where you can earn free In N Out!!!! Google what your public library is doing!

Having a Gardener’s, vs a Consumer’s, mentality for your relationships.

(Taken from ONE, a Marriage Devotional by Jimmy Evans). What this means is that as consumers, we buy things, and if there is something wrong with it, we feel no qualms about returning it, with no thoughts of having any responsibility in its defects. But as gardeners, we see things that are not thriving and think ‘what did I do wrong here, and how can I fix this?’ This is how we need to look at our marriages, as well as all of our relationships (with foster kids, friends, etc)

Draining your pool every few years. Chris is learning about this. Jihae takes for granted that she doesn’t have to think about this. But, Jihae is concerned that people will think they are BOUGIE for having a pool.

Which lead to a conversation about what is BOUGIE.

Apparently Chris has NEVER heard anyone use this word before.

“Urban Dictionary’s top entry for bougie defines it thus:

“Aspiring to be a higher class than one is. Derived from bourgeois – meaning middle/upper class, traditionally despised by communists.”

So in modern-day English, someone who is bougie is creating an air of wealth or upper class status — whether it’s true or not.” (taken from an article on USA Today)

The (Good) Word of the Day:

Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.

Philippians 4:8

This is Lily’s ‘life verse’ which we picked out for her when she was a baby. She has really grown in this, which we are so thankful for! Even though being a foster sister can be very difficult, especially when you have to say good bye to the cutest babies in the world, she would not trade that experience for the non-traumatic experience of not knowing those babies.

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